Samoan Respect
Just as America has its own set of faux-pas and cultural standards, there are a few aspects of Samoan culture that needed to be learned when we first got here so we would avoid offending. Though we still sometimes offend by accident, people see that we’re trying and will forgive us. A few of the major things to always keep in mind:
1. Do not wear shoes into a house or open fale. Leave them at the door.
2. Never stand up while you are talking to someone who is sitting. Enter the room, sit down, and then begin to speak.
3. There are many occasions where you will be sitting on the floor with people. Never point your feet towards them. Always sit either cross legged or tuck your feet to the side. After meetings and prayers people are often told that they can relax, in other words, stretch out their feet. In such cases, feet should be pointed away from everyone.
4. When walking between two people talking to each other bow your head and say “Tulou.” Pronounced “Too-Low.”
5. When eating a meal with a family or at work, a prayer is always said first before eating.
6. Do not stand while eating or drinking.
1. Do not wear shoes into a house or open fale. Leave them at the door.
2. Never stand up while you are talking to someone who is sitting. Enter the room, sit down, and then begin to speak.
3. There are many occasions where you will be sitting on the floor with people. Never point your feet towards them. Always sit either cross legged or tuck your feet to the side. After meetings and prayers people are often told that they can relax, in other words, stretch out their feet. In such cases, feet should be pointed away from everyone.
4. When walking between two people talking to each other bow your head and say “Tulou.” Pronounced “Too-Low.”
5. When eating a meal with a family or at work, a prayer is always said first before eating.
6. Do not stand while eating or drinking.